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amother
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 Mon, Sep 11 2023, 10:51 pm
You know the kind I'm referring to.
We are before Rosh Hashana, and it is timely that we speak of the shameless hugging of posts.
Someone responds genuinely, taking time to share with others often sensitive information, and the first response they"ll get is a hug.
How hurtful, dismissive, and rude.
Remember behind every post there is a person, with volnurable feelings (aint we all got'em?)
Life is not easy ... let us be mindful.
K'sivah V'Chasima Tova
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effess
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Mon, Sep 11 2023, 10:54 pm
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Maybe the hugger is a newbie who thinks it’s a real hug. I’m relatively new and it takes a while to learn the culture here.
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Einikel
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Mon, Sep 11 2023, 10:55 pm
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I’ve long learned to ignore them…
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amother
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Mon, Sep 11 2023, 10:56 pm
| Einikel wrote: | | I’ve long learned to ignore them… |
But, still, can we not expect better? 🤔
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Einikel
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Mon, Sep 11 2023, 10:57 pm
| amother OP wrote: | | But, still, can we not expect better? 🤔 |
I feel like talking about it gives credence to them so I personally feel ignoring is a better option.
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amother
Mustard
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Mon, Sep 11 2023, 10:58 pm
| effess wrote: | | Maybe the hugger is a newbie who thinks it’s a real hug. I’m relatively new and it takes a while to learn the culture here. |
I am a newbie. What is a hug?
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NechaMom
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Mon, Sep 11 2023, 10:58 pm
| amother OP wrote: | You know the kind I'm referring to.
We are before Rosh Hashana, and it is timely that we speak of the shameless hugging of posts.
Someone responds genuinely, taking time to share with others often sensitive information, and the first response they"ll get is a hug.
How hurtful, dismissive, and rude.
Remember behind every post there is a person, with volnurable feelings (aint we all got'em?)
Life is not easy ... let us be mindful.
K'sivah V'Chasima Tova |
Please don’t consider every hug obnoxious.
Especially since you wrote the replies are sensitive and it got a hug. Are you sure those weren’t genuine?
On the same note, if you feel you must hug (as a disagree button) rather quote that post and write what you disagree with. My pet peeve is posts that were obnoxiously hugged without explanation. So immature!
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NechaMom
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Mon, Sep 11 2023, 11:01 pm
I hugged you genuinely, OP
Shana tova to you too!
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dena613
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Mon, Sep 11 2023, 11:03 pm
I give real hugs.
(Okay, I give sarcastic ones too, and I'll try to work on that )
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Goody2shoes
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Mon, Sep 11 2023, 11:11 pm
| NechaMom wrote: | Please don’t consider every hug obnoxious.
Especially since you wrote the replies are sensitive and it got a hug. Are you sure those weren’t genuine?
On the same note, if you feel you must hug (as a disagree button) rather quote that post and write what you disagree with. My pet peeve is posts that were obnoxiously hugged without explanation. So immature! |
This. I can deal with disagreements, I like a good argument . I can't stand the passive aggressive hugs. If you disagree, you gotta be man enough to say it
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BH Yom Yom
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Mon, Sep 11 2023, 11:15 pm
Same here. When I do hug a post, I make a point of adding a comment saying that my hug is genuine (unless it’s obviously genuine, like someone who posted they are going through a loss and got tons of hugs, it would be a little weird to afterward say that I hugged their post genuinely, when probably the other 67 or so hugs are also genuine)
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amother
Amber
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Mon, Sep 11 2023, 11:16 pm
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NechaMom
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Mon, Sep 11 2023, 11:17 pm
| amother Emerald wrote: | | This. I can deal with disagreements, I like a good argument . I can't stand the passive aggressive hugs. If you disagree, you gotta be man enough to say it |
Me too.
I disagree plenty and under my SN, but I quote the post and explain why.
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smss
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Mon, Sep 11 2023, 11:39 pm
| amother Emerald wrote: | | This. I can deal with disagreements, I like a good argument . I can't stand the passive aggressive hugs. If you disagree, you gotta be man enough to say it |
Yessss and be man enough to say it under your own screen name!!
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hodeez
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Mon, Sep 11 2023, 11:42 pm
| smss wrote: | | Yessss and be man enough to say it under your own screen name!! |
Hear hear 
The nonconformist in me likes the hugs because that means what I've said is for some reason controversial 😈
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Goody2shoes
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Mon, Sep 11 2023, 11:43 pm
| smss wrote: | | Yessss and be man enough to say it under your own screen name!! |
Ok, I'll switch it to my screen name 
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amother
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Mon, Sep 11 2023, 11:51 pm
| alwayssmiling wrote: | | If you disagree, you gotta be man enough to say it |
Not on here! 
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amother
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Tue, Sep 12 2023, 3:45 pm
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I think we need a thumbs down or disagree button.
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Java
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Tue, Sep 12 2023, 3:46 pm
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I think we should reimage the hug button to be a 'love' button for when you really love a post
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