Joined: Nov 21 2008 Posts: 3919 Location: New York
Posted: Sun, Jun 26 2011, 12:57 am Post subject: re: Wanna marry me??????/
Great. More work for divorce attorneys! Perhaps I should go to law school... _________________ Talk to Hashem and not to the dead,
In life you'll always get ahead!
Do you really wonder, havefaith, whether a measure to allow people to marry and cement their monogamous relationship will cause more people to get HIV?
Do you really think, opinionated, that gay people have higher divorce rates than straights? Is that based on some recent studies out of massachusetts or vermont?
Do you really wonder, havefaith, whether a measure to allow people to marry and cement their monogamous relationship will cause more people to get HIV?
Do you really think, opinionated, that gay people have higher divorce rates than straights? Is that based on some recent studies out of massachusetts or vermont?
It totally slipped my mind that they have relations way before getting married. Well, time to go to bed..
Do you really think, opinionated, that gay people have higher divorce rates than straights? Is that based on some recent studies out of massachusetts or vermont?
I didn't think Opinionated implied that they would have a higher divorce rate, just that even if they have the same divorce rate as straight couples it would generate more work for divorce attorneys.
I was going to mention that she should look at the bright side of things - more work for wedding planners, wedding venues, photographers, caterers, etc. Proponents of the bill have suggested that it generate $400 million for the state. Of course, opponents point out that the newfound bill would allow spouses to receive Social Security benefits, unemployment benefits, disability benefits and inheritance benefits that would strip the state of revenue.
Posted: Sun, Jun 26 2011, 1:41 am Post subject: Re: re: Wanna marry me??????/
OPINIONATED wrote:
Great. More work for divorce attorneys! Perhaps I should go to law school...
Marina, I understood this to mean that more closeted gay people in unhappy marriages will now divorce in order to pursue open relationships with other gay people that can be their potential marriage partners.
Posted: Sun, Jun 26 2011, 1:47 am Post subject: re: Wanna marry me??????/
ok kitov I will marry you as long as
1: you agree to work full time and your parents agree to pay 1000 dollars a month to support me in kollel
2: you come from yichus
3: you dont use plastic tablecloths on shabbos
4: you dont wear the crossover part of the seatbelt that crosses over your chest chas veshoelaces
5: you dont have red hair (horrors, gasp, it better be auburn or strawberry blonde, not RED )
6: you dont go to kimpeturin homes LOL
7: you plan to breastfeed your babies for at least 2 years each
8: no epidural obviously
9: you will do upsherin with our boys
10: you dont smoke weed
Joined: Apr 29 2008 Posts: 2748 Location: watching the sheep
Posted: Sun, Jun 26 2011, 2:06 am Post subject: Re: re: Wanna marry me??????/
gold21 wrote:
ok kitov I will marry you as long as
1: you agree to work full time and your parents agree to pay 1000 dollars a month to support me in kollel
2: you come from yichus
3: you dont use plastic tablecloths on shabbos
4: you dont wear the crossover part of the seatbelt that crosses over your chest chas veshoelaces
5: you dont have red hair (horrors, gasp, it better be auburn or strawberry blonde, not RED )
6: you dont go to kimpeturin homes LOL
7: you plan to breastfeed your babies for at least 2 years each
8: no epidural obviously
9: you will do upsherin with our boys
10: you dont smoke weed
Joined: Dec 11 2005 Posts: 4759 Location: Efrat, Israel
Posted: Sun, Jun 26 2011, 2:16 am Post subject: re: Wanna marry me??????/
Who gets the Shas ? or do you both get jewellry and sheitals ?
Who gives the baby names ? _________________ Hila
Certified doula/birth assistant
In Israel, Ima to 4 kids and 1 dil and two sils
and the four sweetest grandsons in the world
Joined: Apr 29 2008 Posts: 2748 Location: watching the sheep
Posted: Sun, Jun 26 2011, 2:19 am Post subject: re: Wanna marry me??????/
Is one partner going to default to all the husbandly duties and the other the wifely duties?
Or will you have to set out everything in the kesuba?
ie, who lights the menora
who makes kiddush
who makes hamotzi
who is responsible for changing the light bulbs
who cooks
who washes dishes
who has the babies
the list is never ending - that would be a very long kesuba!!
Joined: Dec 11 2005 Posts: 4759 Location: Efrat, Israel
Posted: Sun, Jun 26 2011, 2:30 am Post subject: Re: re: Wanna marry me??????/
In the kitchen wrote:
Is one partner going to default to all the husbandly duties and the other the wifely duties?
Or will you have to set out everything in the kesuba?
ie, who lights the menora
who makes kiddush
who makes hamotzi
who is responsible for changing the light bulbs
who cooks
who washes dishes
who has the babies
the list is never ending - that would be a very long kesuba!!
Forget all that stuff...who cleans out the bottom of the sink, and who takes out the garbage ?
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