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amother
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Fri, Jun 06 2008, 1:08 pm
and none with my parents. THis is making me sick. I am not going to talk to her or end up yelling at her!
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dillie
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Fri, Jun 06 2008, 1:15 pm
I hate spending all my holidays with MIL
why do you, then?
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Rivky
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Fri, Jun 06 2008, 1:17 pm
Yeh, y do u spend it w/ her? Can't you either stay home or go to ur parents?
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amother
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Fri, Jun 06 2008, 1:19 pm
I have no choice obviously. she comes to me and drives me crazy.
my dh doesnt want to go to my parents, my father doesnt want to go to us.
so im stuck with her. I already dealt with pesach. I cant do it again so soon.
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dillie
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Fri, Jun 06 2008, 1:22 pm
why can't you have a family-free yomtov?
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Rivky
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Fri, Jun 06 2008, 1:23 pm
R u the only family member she has or can go to? Maybe have DH tell her sumtin in a nice way
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amother
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Fri, Jun 06 2008, 1:30 pm
I was planning on a family free YT.
She has noone else to go to. Everyone else is dead or crazy (literally)
but she has friends where she lives.
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Rivky
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Fri, Jun 06 2008, 1:31 pm
Maybe DH can suggest to her to spend it w/ one of her friends??
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dillie
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Fri, Jun 06 2008, 1:33 pm
sounds like you are in a real pickle.
why won't dh ever go to your family?
what does she do that drives you so batty?
maybe invite extra company for the meals so there's a buffer between you and mil?
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mummiedearest
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Fri, Jun 06 2008, 1:42 pm
if your husband doesn't want to go to your parents because his mother will have no place to go, can you go to your parents with your MIL? that way you can go and she won't be lonely.
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NotInNJMommy
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Fri, Jun 06 2008, 1:44 pm
I know this may be a wild idea, but is there someone else nearby who would put her up to sleep and you'd just have her around by day?
It might give you extra space to stay sane, and she functionally gets the same visit.
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ClaRivka
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Fri, Jun 06 2008, 2:22 pm
Were are both the only children who live remotely close to my parents and my inlaws. In the beginning it was a big fight where are we going to end up? whos going to have to spend yontif alone. We figured out that my family would stay by us and we would all eat by them (most meals)
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amother
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Fri, Jun 06 2008, 2:36 pm
NotInNJMommy wrote: | I know this may be a wild idea, but is there someone else nearby who would put her up to sleep and you'd just have her around by day?
It might give you extra space to stay sane, and she functionally gets the same visit. | I misread one of these words, and it made it into a very strange suggestion.
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amother
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Fri, Jun 06 2008, 4:47 pm
she is not in charge of your life. why dont u and your husband work out something that workds out well for both of u
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