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amother
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Post Sun, Dec 08 2024, 5:29 am
you were short on space, would you move your teen kids to your rooom for 1-2 nights?
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love2run




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Dec 08 2024, 5:38 am
If my teens were completely on board with it. Otherwise no. I don't think its fair to make children give up their personal space to accommodate others.
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abound




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Dec 08 2024, 5:40 am
Yes,but my kids would be ok. You need to know your kids.
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Ruchel




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Dec 08 2024, 6:04 am
No. I'd move kids together
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amother
Cappuccino


 

Post Sun, Dec 08 2024, 6:12 am
Are there no other options? Just 2 rooms? In that case I probably wouldn't have guests, unless the teens were really ok with moving.

If there's any other options, younger kids or babies, I'd move them first.
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imaima




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Dec 08 2024, 6:15 am
amother OP wrote:
you were short on space, would you move your teen kids to your rooom for 1-2 nights?


Depends on the guest
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shabbatiscoming




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Dec 08 2024, 6:23 am
No, id first move them together or to the living room.
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amother
Sage


 

Post Sun, Dec 08 2024, 6:27 am
I wouldn't give my guest an option of sleeping at me if I don't have a space. My teen (boy) would prefer to sleep on the couch than in my room. In any case I wouldn't have a teen in my room
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amother
Smokey


 

Post Sun, Dec 08 2024, 6:29 am
I've had my 11 yo in my room. Don't think I'd allow a child older then that sleep in my room.
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amother
Honey


 

Post Sun, Dec 08 2024, 7:10 am
For an emergency only
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amother
Waterlily


 

Post Sun, Dec 08 2024, 7:43 am
amother OP wrote:
you were short on space, would you move your teen kids to your rooom for 1-2 nights?



Not ideal but I've done it a few times.
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amother
Tanzanite


 

Post Sun, Dec 08 2024, 8:04 am
I moved rooms so that my siblings could stay as a teen and in my younger twenties. It was annoying but totally worth it for me because I wanted to hang out with my nieces and nephews and there was no space for them to stay unless I gave up my room.

Oh wait I just reread and understood you were saying to sleep in your room. That’s definitely a bit weird but depends on if your kids are ok with it.
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amother
Seafoam


 

Post Sun, Dec 08 2024, 8:11 am
Yes for a very rare occasion, not if more frequent unless like for grandparents or a family simcha.
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amother
Vanilla


 

Post Sun, Dec 08 2024, 8:13 am
No way. This is why I don’t host guests for sleeping I don’t have space. I’d sooner put them up at a neighbor.
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amother
Cognac


 

Post Sun, Dec 08 2024, 8:17 am
No.
If younger children definitely we move them into our room, teens can be asked to go to another room basement with beds couch etc.
Not parents room
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Iymnok




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Dec 08 2024, 10:10 am
No
There's no space in here!
They either double up in a siblings room or we find a neighbor to host them.
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amother
Celeste


 

Post Sun, Dec 08 2024, 10:12 am
I wouldn't put up guest in my teens rooms. It's their personal space & there's too much going on there to make it in to a guest room.
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