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amother
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 Tue, Aug 13 2024, 8:39 am
Until my husband comes back from shul to break fast? I’m nursing so…. Not a great faster.
Similarly can I take a shower tonight or does that have to wait until chatsos on Wednesday?
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amother
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Tue, Aug 13 2024, 8:43 am
I have the same question as the shower.
DH told me it’s better to wait till tomorrow (Am for me since I’m making a simcha and can’t wait until after 1:00)
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Moonlight
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Tue, Aug 13 2024, 8:46 am
No
You can eat after the zman. Why would you have to wait for your husband?
And you can take a 9 days shower tonight. (Cool/warm)
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amother
Moccasin
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Tue, Aug 13 2024, 8:46 am
I’m not paskening. Just saying what my Rav said.
You don’t have to wait for the men to come home tonight. You can break your fast at the zman the fast is over in your location.
Showers tonight and tomorrow morning until chatzos should be like a regular 9 days cool shower.
Most restrictions of the 9 days end chatzos tomorrow
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amother
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Tue, Aug 13 2024, 8:47 am
| Moonlight wrote: | No
You can eat after the zman. Why would you have to wait for your husband?
And you can take a 9 days shower tonight. (Cool/warm) |
Then I’d rather take a colder shower tonight instead of taking a colder one in the morning.
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amother
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Tue, Aug 13 2024, 8:47 am
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You can eat right at the zman there is not havdala or anything you need to wait for.
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Elfrida
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Tue, Aug 13 2024, 8:50 am
| amother OP wrote: | Until my husband comes back from shul to break fast? I’m nursing so…. Not a great faster.
Similarly can I take a shower tonight or does that have to wait until chatsos on Wednesday? |
If Tisha b'Av is motzei Shabbos, you need to wait for your husband to come home and make havdallah before you eat. This year, with Tisha b'Av being Tuesday, you can go ahead and eat soon as the fast finishes. (It would be polite to just have a drink and something light to eat, so you can sit down and eat properly together.)
Showering is the same halacha as throughout the Nine Days. A quick shower in cold water for hygienic purposes. A more luxurious shower has to wait until after chatzot tomorrow.
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effess
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Tue, Aug 13 2024, 10:55 am
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Reminder to wash your hands first for morning netilas yadayim since this morning we only did our finger tips.
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amother
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Tue, Aug 13 2024, 11:00 am
| amother Moccasin wrote: | I’m not paskening. Just saying what my Rav said.
You don’t have to wait for the men to come home tonight. You can break your fast at the zman the fast is over in your location.
Showers tonight and tomorrow morning until chatzos should be like a regular 9 days cool shower.
Most restrictions of the 9 days end chatzos tomorrow |
All restrictions of the 9 days end tomorrow at noon.
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lamplighter
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Tue, Aug 13 2024, 11:07 am
| amother Oak wrote: | | All restrictions of the 9 days end tomorrow at noon. |
At chatzos, which is not necessarily noon.
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simcha12plus
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Tue, Aug 13 2024, 11:20 am
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our rav said showering should not be done tonight as it is more chamur, and a “nine days” shower should wait until the morning. A proper shower can be taken after chatzos which on the NY/NJ area is around 1pm. the night entering Yud Av is when the bais Hamikdash was actually burning.
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