Tell me your personality and I'll guess your enneagram #

amother

↑ OP ↓

Sun, Nov 24 2024, 5:12 pm

amother Cinnamon wrote:

I have thought of myself as a bunch of different ones but curious what you would say.
I am:
- excellent in social situations
- excellent communicator
- very self aware
- wise
- intelligent and deep but not good with numbers/abstract ideas and not airy fairy spiritual.
- great problem solver, creative thinker
- easily overwhelmed and anxious
- when in the zone can hyper focus and get tons done
- doesn't like confrontation, a bit of a people pleaser.
- empath and generous
- opinionated
- likes things, ideas, expectations to be clear and organized but in real life I struggle with actual upkeep of this.
- justice is huge for me
- struggles with consistency and follow through even though I have brilliant ideas.
- wants to matter/make a difference/be needed
- care to look good and have nice gashmius but my laziness or desire for comfort trumps that.

I have ADHD so some of this is not personality but part of my neurodivergence.

6 in my opinion

amother

↑ OP ↓

Sun, Nov 24 2024, 5:18 pm

amother Vanilla wrote:

I've been interested in this topic since grade school. I'm not positive of what my number is but I have an idea. Also, I wish I were a three....maybe in nother lifetime.
I am fearful, judgemental, and somewhat black and white. I don't understand lying or deception.
I'm very free spirited and open to new ideas. I am uninhibited and approach the world with a childlike sense of wonder and curiosity. I often wonder "why?". Convention has no place in the way I behave. If I feel like running I will run, if I feel like singing I will sing. I give hugs, smiles, and complements freely and sincerely. Ideas excited me especially about sociology. I love to help people. That gives me the most gratification. I wish I could make a big difference int he word and be important but I understand that no one and nothing really matters in the scheme of things and that it's all in the details. I have an obsession with death and all things otherworldly. I'm deeply emotionally sensitive and while I can't handle my emotions sometimes I often crave the intense feeling of them. I love music and beautiful things, but only took at and not to own. I don't care about the way I look and shy away from "collecting" physical items. My practical side doesn't want extra things in my life, having things brings me no pleasure. The romantic side of me loves to look and appreciate them. My romantic side also has an obsession with the past and present experiences of people. I am loud, friendly, and people like me but I have few friends. The relationships I have are deep, and only then, fulfilling. I love to think of creative ways to solve problems. I value efficiency and order as tools for a project or job but I have no problem doing nothing with the time saved. I enjoy reading, laughing, cooking, and playing competitive games.

My hesitant opinion is 2 with strong 1 and 3 wings.

Very important to understand that there is no better or worse number. Each personality traits can be developed in positive or negative way. A healthy 2 is a beautiful incredible person

amother

↑ OP ↓

Sun, Nov 24 2024, 5:20 pm

amother Daphne wrote:

This is fun
I used to think of myself as deep and brooding. Only connected to people who I thought of as deep as well.
Figured out as an adult that I have CPTSD. Now I’m a lot more logical and have less patience for long conversations about feelings.
I still get triggered and have flashbacks at times, and I allow myself to feel but as soon as it’s over I move on.
I’m told I give off a don’t-mess-with-me vibe. I have social anxiety and hate making phone calls. I don’t care what people think of me. I love being comfortable but don’t connect to material possessions. Hate wearing makeup and jewelry.
I’ve been called a “walking encyclopedia”. I randomly go down google rabbit holes about different topics. My kids think I know everything (I don’t). I am challenged with numbers, failed at math, love science (as long as it doesn’t have numbers) and express myself very well through writing and poetry.
I love very deeply, only those I allow to get close. I get overwhelmed easily and don’t have a lot of physical stamina.
That’s about all I can think of for now

4 again here with strong 5 wing

amother

↑ OP ↓

Sun, Nov 24 2024, 5:29 pm

amother Sand wrote:

I just read a basic description of all 9 and I can literally take a few things from each one.
Is there a multi category?

No there isn't, but sometimes the descriptions can overlap.

For example

Introverts can be
1s, because they're thought out and self righteous.
4s, because they're contemplative and sad. 5s, because they're deep in thought

People pleasing can be
2 because they want ppl to like them
3 because they want ppl to admire them
6 because they want to be loyal
7 because they can't handle heavy emotions
9 because they're natural peacemakers

The key is to look at the reason for doing things or underlying fears, virtue and vice

amother

↑ OP ↓

Sun, Nov 24 2024, 5:33 pm

amother Buttercup wrote:

That is totally me. Crazy. I’m just curious what you think about my husband. He’s the complete opposite.
Extremely outgoing.
Life of the party.
Thrives at social events
Smart
Savvy
High self confidence(sometimes to a fault)
Cares about appearance, cares about clothing , he’s neat and put together, but doesn’t mind my messes and makes some of his own.
Will help anyone
Does not care what ppl think about him
A little stubborn
Love language is gifts and words of affirmation
Has a hard time admitting when wrong
Doesn’t hold grudges
I think we work out as couple because we learn from each other.
I definitely learned how to be more social from him, and he learned how to tone it down a bit from me.

Your husband sounds like a social 3 with the exception of "doesn't care what ppl think about him" so I could be off.

Can someone help me here? Is he a7 maybe presenting like a 3?

amother

↑ OP ↓

Sun, Nov 24 2024, 5:39 pm

amother Cinnamon wrote:

So far I've been guessed to be a 6,7 or 9.
How can I be 3 different ones?

You gotta dig deeper, only you can know for sure what feels right.

They're all 3 ppl pleasing and can be a great friend, but for different reasons.

Are you always thinking of worse case scenarios? (6)
Are you always looking for the next thrill? Avoid staying home, always need to experience things, must have something to look forward to? (7)
Passive aggressive, sluggish, wud luv to just sit around wait for someone else to take action? (9)

amother

↑ Oak ↓

Sun, Nov 24 2024, 6:02 pm

What personality is this?
Brilliant and loves to learn
Straight as an arrow
Achiever/into hard work and triumph
Responsible/consistant/reliable
Deeply emotional and loving but not able to communicate it in words
Into self development but in a bit of a depressive/self destructive way
Introverted/socially shy
Hates being boxed into a “type” 😆

Married to a textbook 4

amother

↑ Vanilla

Sun, Nov 24 2024, 6:40 pm

amother OP wrote:

Thanks for answering!
My guess is 2 also. I didn't have guesses about wings, I don't know how that works.
I used to wish to be a 4 when I was a teenager. I have a love hate thing with that profile. I'm attracted and repulsed at the same time.
I guess the aspects of 3 that I want are their success, magnetic personality, confidence, their immersion in the physical world.

amother

Junglegreen

Sun, Nov 24 2024, 6:45 pm

Like reading, like imamother, like schmoozing with friends.
Feel tremendous joy and fulfillment in my teaching job.
Get irritated by typos and when others do things wrong or make poor decisions.
When I was younger (before marriage and real life) I was more motivated and driven to excel. Nowadays I'm more down. My house is messy and linen is rarely washed, but there is food and everyone does their homework.
I'm a know it all in areas that I'm strong at, like in the field of education. I like showing off my knowledge.
I'm strong minded in general, and a little bossy.

ETA my parents are strong 1 and 8

amother

Pink

Sun, Nov 24 2024, 8:11 pm

Fiercely loyal, devoted, dedicated to everything close to me.

Love 1:1 /small group interactions aka more intimate settings vs a large crowd - love meeting up with people and spending quality time, but hate talking on the phone - will always prefer texting than phone conversations

Lots of self -esteem. I love and feel comfortable with who I am, I’m happy to always do what I think is right regardless of those around me. I make my own choices and don’t rely on others.

like being middle of the road in all areas

Not assertive AT ALL/ hate confrontation.

Easy to fargin, don’t bear a grudge.

Very trusting person, quick to open up to others, but if you’ve let me down, hard to rebuild that trust.

Impulsive decision maker- don’t like dragging things out or overthinking things.

Strong need to be on time. Don’t like waiting til the last minute.

amother

↑ OP ↓

Mon, Nov 25 2024, 12:19 am

amother Pink wrote:

amother

Watermelon ↓

Mon, Nov 25 2024, 1:22 am

I am a real opposite of a go-getter (Is there a word for that?). Also, the opposite of perfectionist. Everything is fine the way it is. Can be kind of lazy, not so great at big social situations but I like being with friends in smaller groups. Don't have huge groups of friends. Love to chill and take it easy. Can't make decisions easily, Always been considered a super nice person by everyone. Maybe because I'm a people pleaser, but the truth is I really am nice and kind. Very not bossy and easy to work and deal with. Non-confrontational, and not opinionated. Just want everyone to be happy. With me and with everyone else. I hate when there is conflict around me. Care very much what people think of me.
LOL this is really easy. I am a classic of my #.

amother

Glitter ↓

Mon, Nov 25 2024, 2:01 am

Very kind hearted and giving
Lots of emotions and feelings, need to process emotions
Very creative, I like when everything is pretty and nice. I usually only buy nice things. I make pretty things out of nothing.
I understand and feel other peoples feelings very deeply, other’s pain pains me.
I like to be organized but it takes me a while to get things perfectly organized.

amother

↑ OP ↓

Mon, Nov 25 2024, 7:43 am

amother Watermelon wrote:

Yup 9