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Crohn's flare and abusive parenting-is this a thing?
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amother
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Post Fri, Aug 25 2023, 2:16 pm
amother Royalblue wrote:
You're not qualified to make any categorical statements


But OP is???
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amother
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Post Fri, Aug 25 2023, 2:18 pm
amother RosePink wrote:
PSA here. My adult son has Crohn's which is 100% controlled by biologics BH. Never heard of this. I make it my duty to tamp down fear mongering regarding Crohn's. Everyone's case is different and it only causes harm by making it sound like this kind of behavior is a symptom of Crohn's. This is someone's individual issues not intrinsically related to Crohn's disease.


My dh has colitis, also using biologics. He has a temper from his parents. He’s in therapy for it. When he’s stresssed out about anything- parnossah, health, whatever- he is harsh on the kids. But so am I when I’m stressed out from lack of sleep or anything else. We’re working on it in therapy.
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amother
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Post Fri, Aug 25 2023, 2:41 pm
amother RosePink wrote:
I knew someone would chime in with this that is why I specifically chose people who I am very close to in my life.
I know someone who is a twin who has a terrible temper. Should I start claiming that being a twin causes someone to have bad middos? And if you say your aunt is a twin but is so nice would it be normal for me to answer well you don't know what is going on behind closed doors?
My husband has blue eyes and has OCD. So now does that mean blue eyed people are more likely to have OCD?
This is NONSENSE
Researchers and doctors know more than you do, and they say there is definitely a connection, so I’ll listen to them, thanks.
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amother
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Post Fri, Aug 25 2023, 2:42 pm
amother Aqua wrote:
I didn't read the whole thread, but I just want to add that Crohn's is often linked to stress.

It can be kept under control but flare ups often mean the person is more stressed than usual, which can also cause a person to act in ways that they usually wouldn't.
Also true, the connection works both ways
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notshanarishona




 
 
    
 

Post Fri, Aug 25 2023, 3:25 pm
Being in pain or not feeling well can cause anyone to have less patience, be more irritable,etc. that doesn’t excuse abuse or make it a direct connection.
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amother
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Post Fri, Aug 25 2023, 5:40 pm
As someone with crohn's who is married to someone with colitis, and having done a lot of research on ibd, I would like to reiterate what a few posters mentioned:
OP, please try to get your husband to optimize his medications so that he doesn't flare. There are many biologics that treat crohn's-they are the most effective way to reduce flares and induce remission. And it's not enough to just take the medicine, he needs to be in touch regularly with his DR to assess if the drug is working and adjust the dosing and running accordingly. Please, please do this!
It's important for his health too!
Good luck!
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