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amother
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Post Today at 7:32 am
I'm at a complete loss
My toddler keeps hitting the baby. Sometimes it'll be out of frustration like he wants the toy she's playing with other times it seems completely unprompted.
I know he's two and this is unfortunately common to your old behavior. I'm just really struggling with disciplining the situation.
He's smart enough to understand that he hit her and some of the details but not to tell me why. And he doesn't stop.

This has been going on all week long and I don't know how to help either of my kids. My toddler to stop hitting and my babies to stop being the target.

Looking for advice from experience mommies
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#BestBubby  




 
 
    
 

Post Today at 9:10 am
I have taught toddlers to stop hitting


By shouting NO! In their face
And picking them up and putting them far away from baby.

I say "No Hitting, No Hitting"

And walk away and don't give attention for a few minutes.

Takes about 2 weeks for hitting to stop
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  #BestBubby




 
 
    
 

Post Today at 9:14 am
Be pro active.

Try to supervise playing near each other.

If toddler wants baby's toy,say

"I will give you the car. Let's get another toy for the baby"

Babies usually don't care if you take a toy away if you give another toy.

Toddlers learn to do this themselves, take the toy but give baby a different toy.
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amother
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Post Today at 9:26 am
So normal. A few ideas when your son hits pick up baby and give the baby a lot of attention and ignore toddler. He wants attention and negative attention is still attention. The rest of the day give toddler lots of positive attention and talk about gentle touch give lots of praise for being gentle. Try to give words to frustration and anger. Before the hitting. Talk to baby that no he cant have xyz (special privileges or toys)because hes too young its only for big boys.
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amother
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Post Today at 9:51 am
A 2 year old is still a baby & needs alot of attention as well. He probably feels that the baby is getting more attention then him & he's trying to get your attention.
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amother
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Post Today at 9:56 am
#BestBubby wrote:
I have taught toddlers to stop hitting


By shouting NO! In their face
And picking them up and putting them far away from baby.

I say "No Hitting, No Hitting"

And walk away and don't give attention for a few minutes.

Takes about 2 weeks for hitting to stop

Why shout when Hashem gave you the ability to speak?
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