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amother
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Post Yesterday at 9:30 pm
I think I'm a unique female

I dont do my nails
I dont buy/get jewelery
I dont wear a pocketbook
I dont enjoy shopping
I dont enjoy decorating
I dont enjoy hosting
I dont enjoy o'ing/ trying to
lol, am I crazy??


(dw, I am very put together, I look very neat and classy all the time Smile)
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amother
Raspberry


 

Post Yesterday at 9:37 pm
No you're not crazy. You are you! Embrace yourself
What do you enjoy?
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hodeez




 
 
    
 

Post Yesterday at 9:39 pm
Maybe youre nonbinary 😂
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amother
IndianRed  


 

Post Yesterday at 9:40 pm
I check all your boxes too
So there’s at least two of us
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amother
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Post Yesterday at 9:41 pm
amother Raspberry wrote:
No you're not crazy. You are you! Embrace yourself
What do you enjoy?


working
organizing my house
spending time with my children
chesed
outings
family/friends meetings
taking pictures
nature
BUYING FOOD
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amother
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Post Yesterday at 9:42 pm
amother IndianRed wrote:
I check all your boxes too
So there’s at least two of us

OMY GOSH! wow
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NechaMom  




 
 
    
 

Post Yesterday at 9:42 pm
How about cooking, cleaning, laundry? Many women are not 100% womanly. You're less unique than you think.
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  NechaMom  




 
 
    
 

Post Yesterday at 9:44 pm
amother OP wrote:
working
organizing my house
spending time with my children
chesed
outings
family/friends meetings
taking pictures
nature
BUYING FOOD

On that's a lot. So you're just human. You enjoy some stuff and don't enjoy other stuff. Normal. ✅
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amother
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Post Yesterday at 9:45 pm
amother OP wrote:
working
organizing my house
spending time with my children
chesed
outings
family/friends meetings
taking pictures
nature
BUYING FOOD


You're a good Jewish Mom! Nothing to worry about, and I'll bet your life is a lot less stressfull then those who 'need' all that.
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amother
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Post Yesterday at 9:46 pm
NechaMom wrote:
On that's a lot. So you're just human. You enjoy some stuff and don't enjoy other stuff. Normal. ✅

LOL but wheres my feminism??
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amother
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Post Yesterday at 9:46 pm
amother Catmint wrote:
You're a good Jewish Mom! Nothing to worry about, and I'll bet your life is a lot less stressfull then those who 'need' all that.


LOL
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amother
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Post Yesterday at 9:47 pm
NechaMom wrote:
How about cooking, cleaning, laundry? Many women are not 100% womanly. You're less unique than you think.


cooking- dont mind but I do basic
cleaning- I enjoy but I rather leave for my cleaning lady
laundry- I wash, cant stand the folding, give it to cleaning lady
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  NechaMom




 
 
    
 

Post Yesterday at 9:47 pm
amother OP wrote:
LOL but wheres my feminism??

Spending time with children, chesed, outings, pictures. It's right there.
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amother
Antiquewhite  


 

Post Yesterday at 9:47 pm
amother OP wrote:
I think I'm a unique female

I dont do my nails
I dont buy/get jewelery
I dont wear a pocketbook
I dont enjoy shopping
I dont enjoy decorating
I dont enjoy hosting
I dont enjoy o'ing/ trying to
lol, am I crazy??


(dw, I am very put together, I look very neat and classy all the time Smile)


Not doing nails is very common.

Not buying jewelry is probably not uncommon, but most people like shiny things.

Not wearing a pocketbook - do your clothes have pockets? Because, purely for practical reasons, how do you carry your things? Most women either have a nice bag or two, or have a beat up purse they don't particularly care about, but, at least in the warmer seasons when not using a jacket, some kind of bag is necessary.

A lot of women don't enjoy shopping.

Same for decorating.

Most women enjoy some aspects of hosting but find it stressful overall.

That last thing honestly does sound kind of abnormal, not specifically as a woman. S-xual pleasure, is, well, pleasurable for most people, and it's supposed to be.
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amother
  Catmint


 

Post Yesterday at 9:47 pm
amother OP wrote:
LOL but wheres my feminism??


Enjoying your kids, buying food..socialising. Everything feminine about that!
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amother
  Antiquewhite


 

Post Yesterday at 9:47 pm
amother OP wrote:
LOL but wheres my feminism??


Unrelated to any of the things you posted.
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amother
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Post Yesterday at 9:49 pm
Ha ha
These responses are making me giggle!
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amother
Aubergine


 

Post Yesterday at 10:00 pm
amother IndianRed wrote:
I check all your boxes too
So there’s at least two of us


Make that three! Hi
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amother
  IndianRed  


 

Post Yesterday at 10:01 pm
amother OP wrote:
LOL but wheres my feminism??


Men and women can enjoy cooking
Men and women can enjoy jewelry
Men and women can enjoy shopping

Etc
That’s not what makes someone feminine
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amother
Garnet


 

Post Yesterday at 10:03 pm
All of what you wrote except I love hosting.
Also, O-ing feels good but overrated IMO.
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