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amother
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 Today at 1:27 pm
but if you hold all the complaints inside of you and deny hardships which we usually express with venting and getting support
wont we plotz? wont it come out in other ways like being snappy with kids, emotional eating etc.
please explain a healthy way to do this.
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amother
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Today at 1:49 pm
| amother Azure wrote: | but if you hold all the complaints inside of you and deny hardships which we usually express with venting and getting support
wont we plotz? wont it come out in other ways like being snappy with kids, emotional eating etc.
please explain a healthy way to do this. |
Just a safe-haven discussion I hope this will remain (vs debating it)
I would reply that anyone interested should just do was resonates as a healthy avoda whoch brings them strength & inspiration, & 100%, if someone finds it burdensome, that they will be taking it out on others or it's a stress inducing thing, than it's highly inappropriate prioritizing!
Kind of like an aspect of chumras if I understand correctly, that it shouldn't be at others expense, should perhaps be private, should bring them.up not down. Basic halacha & derech eretz takes priority etc.
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amother
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Today at 1:51 pm
Kislev is considered a unique time where it is permitted to daven for miracles/above nature. We light 8, & 8 signifies above nature. There's I'm sure much more but that's a little bit of what I understand about kislev
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amother
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Today at 2:17 pm
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I would love to do it. However will need to cancel therapy for the month.
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amother
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Today at 2:24 pm
| amother Holly wrote: | | I would love to do it. However will need to cancel therapy for the month. |
I don’t think therapy would count as complaining as it’s part of the healing process. But I may be wrong.
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amother
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Today at 2:59 pm
| amother Buttercup wrote: | | I don’t think therapy would count as complaining as it’s part of the healing process. But I may be wrong. |
If that's so, I'm in
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A_Mother_First
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Today at 3:07 pm
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If I stop complaining for an entire month, I suspect that my family will be rather worried about me... More seriously, it's something I definitely want to try on. The difficult part for me is that it sounds very black & white: I need to be one hundred percent successful and not complain even once in order for this Segula to work. However, I'm going to still try -- one day at a time; one hour at a time. I believe that the potential growth experienced from working on this is already its own Yeshuah.
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amother
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Today at 3:07 pm
| A_Mother_First wrote: | | If I stop complaining for an entire month, I suspect that my family will be rather worried about me... More seriously, it's something I definitely want to try on. The difficult part for me is that it sounds very black & white: I need to be one hundred percent successful and not complain even once in order for this Segula to work. However, I'm going to still try -- one day at a time; one hour at a time. I believe that the potential growth experienced from working on this is already its own Yeshuah. |
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