Is there any hope left for us?!! (Guess my OP)

amother

OP ↓

Mon, Sep 23 2024, 4:15 pm

This is daagahminayin testing out a new game.

The original post for this thread has been removed.

How to play: Read the thread until you see the post “Guess my OP”, then use your imagination and skills of deduction to guess what was written in the original post (if you contributed to the thread last night then don’t give it away!)

There are two winners: one for most accurate and another for most creative.

amother

Obsidian ↓

Mon, Sep 23 2024, 4:25 pm

My spmpathys, op.
Your husband is clearly more of an animal than a human.
Your only hope is an immediate divorce. Or, better yet, an annulment of the marriage.

amother

Cyclamen

Mon, Sep 23 2024, 4:25 pm

Wow, first world problems!! That should be the hardest thing in your life Mamala 🙄 such a snowflake generation! Maybe go to therapy to grow a backbone or discover/create bigger problems you are yet unaware of!

amother

↑ Obsidian

Mon, Sep 23 2024, 4:25 pm

amother Obsidian wrote:

My sympathies, op.
Your husband is clearly more of an animal than a human.
Your only hope is an immediate divorce. Or, better yet, an annulment of the marriage.

amother

↑ OP ↓

Mon, Sep 23 2024, 4:32 pm

Do I have to divorce? Can such a problem be fixed? Did anyone go through it with their husband and your relationship survived? I want to make it work, but I simultaneously can’t get the image out of my head. I grew up quite sheltered. I’m sure my brothers never did this…

amother

Forsythia

Mon, Sep 23 2024, 4:34 pm

It's your problem. Why don't you give him the privacy he clearly needs? And besides, what would you rather he did? Just let it pile up? Be grateful you have a man that knows a thing or two about self care.
And to all who say divorce, you are clearly just damaging generations of being born.

amother

↑ OP ↓

Tue, Sep 24 2024, 10:26 am

(Bumping up from last night so people who didn’t see the original post can play).

amother

Coral

Tue, Sep 24 2024, 11:03 am

Yes there is hope!
My husband also used to bite his toenails and I can assure you that none of my brothers did that.
I was so horrified. Couldn’t bring myself to tell anyone. The shame!!
Eventually I got us both into Biters Anonymous and we made an incredible discovery.
They make CLIPPERS for TOENAILS! So you don’t have to use the fingernail ones! Or your teeth!
Life changing, I guarantee it

amother

↑ OP ↓

Tue, Sep 24 2024, 11:55 am

amother Coral wrote:

Thank you for playing Smile

floridabubbe

Tue, Sep 24 2024, 12:08 pm

I will assume they are talking about watching inappropriate material. it is normal for men to watch especially when their wives are in nidda. personally while I dont approve of it I would much rather prefer that then have him looking at other women in the world around him which may lead him to go down other rabbit holes and cause way more issues. It is definitely something that can be discussed bet husband and wife but honestly if he is struggling and needs some private time while I may not like it I would let it happen especially if he told me about it as opposed to him hiding it.just my two cents worth.

amother

Dahlia ↓

Tue, Sep 24 2024, 12:18 pm

Don't worry, my husband also looks at the earwax he cleans out of his ears. We're talking close examination. I'm surprised he doesn't get out a light box to inspect it more closely.

Let him do his thing on private amd take comfort in knowing you're not alone in this.

amother

↑ OP ↓

Tue, Sep 24 2024, 12:30 pm

Thanks everyone who answered.

I just want to clarify my vision for the game. Your job is to WRITE the OP as you imagine it to be.

For example:

“Ladies, what should I do? My husband didn’t know I came home from work early. I walked into our bedroom and saw him dressed in a bunny costume. It wasn’t Purim. He turned bright red and hopped out the window. There are pieces of carrot all over the carpet and I don’t know what to think. Is this normal?”

amother

Saddlebrown ↓

Tue, Sep 24 2024, 12:35 pm

I assume you walked in on him scraping off the dead ants off his feet? My DH does this too, especially during the summer when he walks around barefoot outside. It’s disgusting and he’s not aloud to come inside until all the bugs have been removed first

But it’s totally normal and I’ve learned to make my peace with it. Plus I don’t need to invest in ant traps, so there’s that

amother

↑ Saddlebrown

Tue, Sep 24 2024, 12:36 pm

amother OP wrote:

Oh whoops 😅

amother

Pistachio

Tue, Sep 24 2024, 1:03 pm

Help!
My husband leaves the toilet seat up every single time.
I asked him so many times to put it down as it grosses me out, but he always forgets.
Is this grounds for divorce?