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Posted: Tue, May 06 2008, 2:49 pm Post subject: Re: re: books like fairy tales and certain movies for childr |
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| louche wrote: | | shalhevet wrote: | they are totally not Jewish values - greed, jealousy, and pure evil.
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There is no dearth of greed, jealousy, and pure evil in Tanach--nor adultery, incest, murder, general havoc and sometimes what we would consider plain vulgarity, either.
It’s the elevated tone and archaic language of Tanach, coupled with the fact that for many of us it’s not our native language, that makes it seem rarefied, but Nach especially is quite gritty in places.
I was once offended by a Biblical-period novel in which an invading army was instructed to annihilate a city and leave “none that p----s against a wall.” I objected to the crudity, till I was wandering in the byways of my Tanach and stumbled upon this passage in which David says to Avigayil (still married to Naval):
כִּי לוּלֵי מִהַרְתְּ, ותבאתי (וַתָּבֹאת) לִקְרָאתִי--כִּי אִם-נוֹתַר לְנָבָל עַד-אוֹר הַבֹּקֶר, מַשְׁתִּין בְּקִיר
I ask you, what kind of language is that in mixed company? And to a great lady and Neviah like Avigayil, yet! |
I find your post offensive.
Tanach is kedusha, written mipi elyon. It uses the lashon we need to read. For a frum woman to compare it to cruel fiction written by non jews is just sad.
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Posted: Tue, May 06 2008, 3:01 pm Post subject: re: books like fairy tales and certain movies for children |
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You can't completely separate the two though. Folklore is an evolution and much of it has its roots in Tanach. So you can't say that it's purely evil. Nobody sat down one day and wrote these stories off the tops of their heads. _________________ The ability to Google does not make you learned.
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Posted: Tue, May 06 2008, 6:07 pm Post subject: Re: re: books like fairy tales and certain movies for childr |
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| shalhevet wrote: | I find your post offensive.
Tanach is kedusha, written mipi elyon. It uses the lashon we need to read. For a frum woman to compare it to cruel fiction written by non jews is just sad. |
I agree.
| cassandra wrote: | | Many fairy tales have their roots in Tanach-- like Cinderella is very reminiscent of Shmuel's visit to Yishai's house where Dovid was not considered as he was the youngest and the smallest. |
I grew up with the Cinderalla story and I learned that story in Tanach and I never made the connection. Once you bring it my attention, yes, there are similarities, but so what? There are similarities between Christianity and l'havdil Judaism, because they copy from us. So? Why do you say the two can't be separated? Sure they can! One is holy and one is not.
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Posted: Tue, May 06 2008, 6:09 pm Post subject: re: books like fairy tales and certain movies for children |
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| Because folk tales aren't claiming to be replacement for the revelation at Sinai.
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Posted: Tue, May 06 2008, 6:39 pm Post subject: re: books like fairy tales and certain movies for children |
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We read a lot of 'non jewish' litterature to our kids. Fairy tales? truthfully they aren't so interested. They tend to drag and my kids aren't so wrapped up in the ideas. Nursery Rhymes (traditional ones at least) aren't much better in their content: Ring Around the Roses? It's about the plague. Sur le Pont D'Avignon: it's about insanity. I caould go on and on.
As for the comment that they were written by Germans - what was the significance there? There were also many talmidei Chochomim from Germany and an entire Frum culture which endures today from Germany.
These stories were written down folklore, as already mentioned, and designed to be cautionary tales for youngsters (no different from baba maisehs. The truth is in young children, the words don't matter as much as the tone and atmosphere in which it is presented. So so so so many of our "kosher" kiddie songs are these exact nursery rhymes set to different words!
Dip the Apple: Oh My Darlin
Ring Around the Torah: Ring Around the Rosie
to name a few.
My kids don't yet read, they look at the pictures and we make up a story to match! My kids don't watch movies so I guess they don't know what the pictures "are supposed to mean"
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Posted: Tue, May 06 2008, 6:46 pm Post subject: re: books like fairy tales and certain movies for children |
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| oh my darlin clementine is not a folksong or fairy tale. it is a miner's song, in which darlin clementine drowns. it doesn't have any moral or warning, other than maybe stay away from streams? doesn't count, wrong genre.
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Posted: Tue, May 06 2008, 6:49 pm Post subject: Re: books like fairy tales and certain movies for children |
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| miriamnechama wrote: | | I have some old fairytale books that I had as a girl and I'm beginning to wonder if it's ok to read them t my boys, ie cinderrella etc, this whole motto of happilly ever after.... |
I haven't read the other responses but I just HAD TO COMMENT!!!!!!!!
happily ever after MY FOOT!
I assure you that Cinderella had to go for extensive therapy after being kept as a slave and locked in the attic by her abusive step family.
the family probably only got a measly sentence like that horrid fritzel fellow... I mean creature.
Fairy tales were never meant to be for kids they were about abuse, neglect ........HORRID, HORRID stories!!!!!
take Hansel and gretel for example! I was really traumatized by that story when I heard it as a youngster, and what about that guy with the weird name that kidnaps the baby?
Why would anyone want to treat their innocent beautiful kids to such ghastly stuff at such tender ages?
Do you tell your kid's bedtime stories about monsters trying to eat them?
I doubt it, then why hansel and gretel?
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Ring around the roses has nothing to do with the plague. _________________ Dip the apple in the honey...
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Posted: Tue, May 06 2008, 6:54 pm Post subject: |
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| Crayon210 wrote: | | Ring around the roses has nothing to do with the plague. |
untrue.
ring around the rosie- symptoms were a black ring around a red spot on the skin
a pocket full of posies- flowers were used to ward off evil spirits believed to cause illness
ashes, ashes- the bodies were cremated prevent the spread of the plague
we all fall down- everyone dies.
it's well known to be about the plague.
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| Crayon210 wrote: | | Ring around the roses has nothing to do with the plague. |
Most people think it does.
| Quote: | | Fairy tales were never meant to be for kids they were about abuse, neglect ........HORRID, HORRID stories!!!!! |
They were meant for kids, in a society where people felt that scare tactics were the best method to teach good behavior. Kind of like driving over a kid's DVD player to enforce the no movie rule.
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Posted: Tue, May 06 2008, 7:02 pm Post subject: |
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Even if many people believe something that is not true, that fact remains untrue.
Thank you for the incorrect explanation of Ring around the roses.
http://www.snopes.com/language/literary/rosie.asp
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Posted: Tue, May 06 2008, 7:09 pm Post subject: re: books like fairy tales and certain movies for children |
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I don't consider snopes to be an authority on literature.
folklore was meant to be transmitted orally. why would you write down something to publish when every child knows it by heart?
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| I consider snopes to be the authority on everything.
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Posted: Tue, May 06 2008, 7:11 pm Post subject: re: books like fairy tales and certain movies for children |
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I haven't finished my rant yet.
now I'm on to fairys.
We have a rich true culture full of Hashem and Elokus, tzadikim, melochim, etc, what on earth do we need wimpy fairys for?
furthermore, eventually they find out those fairy's don't exist, but I think a parent should prefer to keep their child's trust rather then destroy it with falsehood.
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Posted: Tue, May 06 2008, 7:13 pm Post subject: Re: re: books like fairy tales and certain movies for childr |
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| EstiS wrote: | .
We have a rich true culture full of Hashem and Elokus, tzadikim, melochim, etc, what on earth do we need wimpy fairys for?
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Not everyone likes to portray spirituality to their children in this manner.
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| But if you're going to give these ideas over to your kids, why davka pick the non-Jewish version instead of the Jewish version?
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Posted: Tue, May 06 2008, 7:16 pm Post subject: re: books like fairy tales and certain movies for children |
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For once I have to agree with Estis . Nursery rymes, fairy tales are all that, junk that fill a childs mind when they could be dreaming about and absorbing, fantasising so much more toichendika stuff.
What makes it childish,the pictures
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Posted: Tue, May 06 2008, 7:17 pm Post subject: Re: re: books like fairy tales and certain movies for childr |
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| cassandra wrote: | | EstiS wrote: | .
We have a rich true culture full of Hashem and Elokus, tzadikim, melochim, etc, what on earth do we need wimpy fairys for?
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Not everyone likes to portray spirituality to their children in this manner. |
In what manner?
what I'm saying is what do we need the shtus for if we have the real thing?
and how do we expect the kids to trust us on the real thing if we pump them with the shtus?
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Posted: Tue, May 06 2008, 7:19 pm Post subject: re: books like fairy tales and certain movies for children |
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| Because I'd rather they grow out of their interest in fantasy and view the world in a more sophisticated way. If we make religion out to be fantastical it minimizes it. Let them think of fairies as something from their fun from childhood, and when they are older they can try and understand the more spiritual realm using their intellects. As it is my kids don't believe in this stuff, having a cynical mom and all.
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Posted: Tue, May 06 2008, 7:24 pm Post subject: Re: re: books like fairy tales and certain movies for childr |
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| cassandra wrote: | | Because I'd rather they grow out of their interest in fantasy and view the world in a more sophisticated way. If we make religion out to be fantastical it minimizes it. Let them think of fairies as something from their fun from childhood, and when they are older they can try and understand the more spiritual realm using their intellects. As it is my kids don't believe in this stuff, having a cynical mom and all. |
I'm confused as to where you think I wrote we should give over religion as fantasy?
One doesn't grow tired of Kedusha, one grows with it and it get's more sophisticated as your intelligence grows........unlike fairy tales
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