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PostPosted: Thu, May 17 2012, 11:47 pm    Post subject: toys parked on my front lawn
 
I live in a great neighborhood full of kids, my kids have tons of company, its great. Everyone plays outside and has a great time. I always clean up my toys and bring them in at the end of the day, since I want my front area to look neat. But, recently, before I go in for the night, I'd find about 10 different toys like bikes, cozy coupes, scooters, etc. (not mine) scattered across my lawn. what do I do about everyone else's toys? it belongs to various neighbors, their kids leave things lying around so its not like its just 1 person I need to talk to. I seem to be the toy parking lot, no body else has such an abundance/mess in the front.

today I saw a kid left his scooter in my driveway. since he was a few feet away, I told him to take it out since I might run over it. He and his friends were super chutzpadik back.

what can I do? I don't want to have to tell other people's kids what to do, and I don't want to have to ask neighbors to take care of their things and not leave it on my front lawn. is it gezaila if I just put it out for garbage pickup? or have a gemach come around weekly to pick toys up? or is this just life with a neighborhood of little kids, and I should just deal with the mess. any advice?
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PostPosted: Thu, May 17 2012, 11:56 pm    Post subject: re: toys parked on my front lawn
 
My lawn used to be full of toys when my kids were little. It didn't really bother me, but the association started coming around and confiscating toys and bikes left outdoors after dark because their insurance gave them problems about covering nighttime accidents from tripping over toys outside.

Why don't you take their toys and park it at the curb? Or in the street? As in "It's not mine. Don't know whose it is, but it doesn't belong on my lawn. Here, it's hefker. Take it." You'd hope that when people see their things in a heap in the street they'd take the hint.
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PostPosted: Thu, May 17 2012, 11:58 pm    Post subject: Re: re: toys parked on my front lawn
 
groisamomma wrote:
My lawn used to be full of toys when my kids were little. It didn't really bother me, but the association started coming around and confiscating toys and bikes left outdoors after dark because their insurance gave them problems about covering nighttime accidents from tripping over toys outside.

Why don't you take their toys and park it at the curb? Or in the street? As in "It's not mine. Don't know whose it is, but it doesn't belong on my lawn. Here, it's hefker. Take it." You'd hope that when people see their things in a heap in the street they'd take the hint.


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PostPosted: Fri, May 18 2012, 6:16 am    Post subject: re: toys parked on my front lawn
 
I'd put the things in my shed one night, and when the kids come looking for their stuff, tell them their parents need to come get it back. That way the parents know, and the kids will be scared to mess with you again Wink
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PostPosted: Fri, May 18 2012, 7:24 am    Post subject: re: toys parked on my front lawn
 
Do you know the other families? If so, tell the parents directly. "It's great that the kids enjoy playing together all day, but I must ask that they take their toys home at the end of the day."
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PostPosted: Fri, May 18 2012, 8:35 am    Post subject: Re: re: toys parked on my front lawn
 
yOungM0mmy wrote:
I'd put the things in my shed one night, and when the kids come looking for their stuff, tell them their parents need to come get it back. That way the parents know, and the kids will be scared to mess with you again Wink


I was going to say the same thing. Collect everything up, put it somewhere safe, and make parents claim it.
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PostPosted: Fri, May 18 2012, 3:05 pm    Post subject: Re: re: toys parked on my front lawn
 
yOungM0mmy wrote:
I'd put the things in my shed one night, and when the kids come looking for their stuff, tell them their parents need to come get it back. That way the parents know, and the kids will be scared to mess with you again Wink


or this is even better!! Thumbs Up
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PostPosted: Fri, May 18 2012, 3:45 pm    Post subject: Re: re: toys parked on my front lawn
 
Happy 2B wrote:
groisamomma wrote:
My lawn used to be full of toys when my kids were little. It didn't really bother me, but the association started coming around and confiscating toys and bikes left outdoors after dark because their insurance gave them problems about covering nighttime accidents from tripping over toys outside.

Why don't you take their toys and park it at the curb? Or in the street? As in "It's not mine. Don't know whose it is, but it doesn't belong on my lawn. Here, it's hefker. Take it." You'd hope that when people see their things in a heap in the street they'd take the hint.


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Those other toys are not your responsibility. Seems like the only way they'll learn is when (not if) you accidentally drive over one of the toys with your car, backing out of your driveway. If things are spread out all over your property, it's bound to happen. If someone else's toy gets stolen, or broken, it's not your problem or your responsibility. The children may leave the mess, but at the end of the day, the parents are responsible for their belongings.
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PostPosted: Fri, May 18 2012, 3:49 pm    Post subject: re: toys parked on my front lawn
 
what they said. If they don't find it once, they'll learn their lesson. If a parent complains, tell them that you tried to talk to the kids nicely and all you got was chutzpah. It's not your job to be michanech them.
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PostPosted: Fri, May 18 2012, 4:51 pm    Post subject: Re: re: toys parked on my front lawn
 
Happy 2B wrote:
yOungM0mmy wrote:
I'd put the things in my shed one night, and when the kids come looking for their stuff, tell them their parents need to come get it back. That way the parents know, and the kids will be scared to mess with you again Wink


or this is even better!! Thumbs Up


I was thinking that you should have a yard sale of abandoned toys, but that would be mean.
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PostPosted: Sun, May 20 2012, 3:43 pm    Post subject: Re: toys parked on my front lawn
 
amother wrote:
I seem to be the toy parking lot, no body else has such an abundance/mess in the front.


Am I the only one that thinks this is strange? I would love to live on a block like yours, and I would assume that the toys get spread across the yards. That's part of living in a community like that, where kids troop together from yard to yard as if the whole block is one big yard. I personally think that's great -- but then again, I'm not very neat and wouldn't bring my toys inside at the end of the day (from my own yard) unless I was afraid someone would steal them.

That's why if all of the yards looked like yours at the end of the day, I would say "Wow, don't you all think you're overreacting a bit? Maybe she could talk with someof the other mothers when she's outside shmoozing with them and mention to them that she doesn't like it, so that they know to talk to their kids about it. No reason to start a blockwide feud because you're the angry one who took their kids toys without even warning them beforehand." (And no, warning one kid and getting chutzpah back does not mean that you can assume that all of the other kids/parents would act the same way.)

That said, I really don't get the line I quoted. Why does nobody else seem to have this issue, and you do?
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