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Did you make a pidyon Haben for your firstborn?
Yes!
 45%  [ 115 ]
No - our firstborn was a girl!
 26%  [ 66 ]
No - we come from a family of Cohanim / Levim
 19%  [ 50 ]
No - I had a cesarian.
 5%  [ 15 ]
No - I had a previous miscarraige / stillborn.
 1%  [ 5 ]
No - for a different reason. (please explain)
 0%  [ 0 ]
other (please explain)
 0%  [ 1 ]
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PostPosted: Wed, Jan 26 2011, 4:44 pm    Post subject: Did you make a Pidyon Haben for your firstborn?
 
I am curious to see how common it is....

I know that sometimes you can supply more than one reason for no, but since you can only chose one option, please chose the FIRST one that is applicable. (I listed them in a specific order). I would be nice though if you would share in the comments all the reasons that applied to you.
And if you have no children yet, please don't vote.

Thanks!

Btw, my answer is that we had a girl first, B"H. Otherwise we would have made a Pidyon.
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PostPosted: Wed, Jan 26 2011, 4:57 pm    Post subject:
 
Yes.

On my mother's side of the family, it was the first pidyon haben in 60 years.
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PostPosted: Wed, Jan 26 2011, 5:00 pm    Post subject: re: Did you make a Pidyon Haben for your firstborn?
 
I had a pidyon for my bechor. I had had a miss before him during week 5.
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PostPosted: Wed, Jan 26 2011, 5:02 pm    Post subject: re: Did you make a Pidyon Haben for your firstborn?
 
I'm a bas Levi.
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PostPosted: Wed, Jan 26 2011, 5:09 pm    Post subject: re: Did you make a Pidyon Haben for your firstborn?
 
Another bas Levi
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PostPosted: Wed, Jan 26 2011, 5:42 pm    Post subject: re: Did you make a Pidyon Haben for your firstborn?
 
No because my husband is a Cohen.

[saw, that's pretty amazing! Must have been a big simcha.]
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PostPosted: Wed, Jan 26 2011, 5:54 pm    Post subject: re: Did you make a Pidyon Haben for your firstborn?
 
No, it was a C section
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PostPosted: Wed, Jan 26 2011, 5:55 pm    Post subject:
 
Sure did !
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PostPosted: Wed, Jan 26 2011, 5:55 pm    Post subject: re: Did you make a Pidyon Haben for your firstborn?
 
Our oldest is a girl.

My brother made a pidyon haben. Recently my father discovered that he is a safek Levi! He got a psak that it is a safek. So if my brother's son(s) make a pidyon haben, it may have to be without a bracha or something. (Is there a bracha?)

Gee, would this apply to my brother's daughter(s) too?
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PostPosted: Wed, Jan 26 2011, 6:10 pm    Post subject:
 
Well, she was a girl.

And I'm a bas Kohain (it's a sufik though).
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PostPosted: Wed, Jan 26 2011, 6:12 pm    Post subject: re: Did you make a Pidyon Haben for your firstborn?
 
No.

I am a Bas Kohen and I had a c section.
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PostPosted: Wed, Jan 26 2011, 6:14 pm    Post subject: re: Did you make a Pidyon Haben for your firstborn?
 
yup!
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PostPosted: Wed, Jan 26 2011, 6:21 pm    Post subject: Re: re: Did you make a Pidyon Haben for your firstborn?
 
ChossidMom wrote:
I had a pidyon for my bechor. I had had a miss before him during week 5.


I thought you only do a pidyon haben if its your first pregnancy.....
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PostPosted: Wed, Jan 26 2011, 7:14 pm    Post subject:
 
We made one for our bechor. DH had one has he is a bechor. DH's father had one as a bechor. (Additonally, I am a bechora, my mother was a bechora and DH's mother was a bechora -- lots of first borns).

Of my married children, 5 have made for the bechorim; 4 others had girls first and 1 is a bas kohen.
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PostPosted: Wed, Jan 26 2011, 7:34 pm    Post subject: Re: re: Did you make a Pidyon Haben for your firstborn?
 
akivachaya wrote:
ChossidMom wrote:
I had a pidyon for my bechor. I had had a miss before him during week 5.


I thought you only do a pidyon haben if its your first pregnancy.....


I had a miss too at week 8 & we had a pidyon haben for our first. We asked a shaila.
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PostPosted: Wed, Jan 26 2011, 7:40 pm    Post subject: re: Did you make a Pidyon Haben for your firstborn?
 
yes, we made for our bchor.

my husband is a safek bchor -- because his mom had a miscarriage before him. re: miscarriages before first born, it depends @ what point in pregnancy it was.
Just FYI - my husband did his "own" pidyon -- redeemed himself as an adult in yeshiva -- because he is a baal yeshuva. Laughing
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PostPosted: Wed, Jan 26 2011, 7:52 pm    Post subject:
 
yes, he's twin with a girl!!
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PostPosted: Wed, Jan 26 2011, 8:04 pm    Post subject: re: Did you make a Pidyon Haben for your firstborn?
 
Yes, we had a pidyon for our first son.
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PostPosted: Wed, Jan 26 2011, 8:04 pm    Post subject: re: Did you make a Pidyon Haben for your firstborn?
 
yup, I just did!

everyone was commenting, were 5 married sisters now, and 4 of us made a pidyon haben. being not so common, its just interesting! the other one had a girl first. I also have 3 married brothers, and none of them did-2 had girls first and the other's wife is a bas levi.
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PostPosted: Wed, Jan 26 2011, 8:11 pm    Post subject: re: Did you make a Pidyon Haben for your firstborn?
 
yep- BH we were zoche to make a Pidyon HaBen!
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