Accidents

Posted: Tue, Sep 07 2004, 4:40 pm Post subject: accidents

My daughter is 3 years old she is completely toilet trained during the day. Lately she has been having accidents. any suggestions
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Posted: Tue, Sep 07 2004, 5:01 pm Post subject:

maybe shes going through changes- new class, new teacher, new things to get used to and these accidents will pass with time.
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Posted: Tue, Sep 07 2004, 5:24 pm Post subject:

When she was in camp she didnt have that problem It was a new class and new teachers.

Active Poster Joined: Sep 20 2004 Posts: 74

I have a daughter that is almost three. I trained her not too long ago. B"H she is really very good about it and almost never had any accidents, until she started playgroup 2 weeks ago. She suddenly started having accidents very often. Then I realized that she is still getting used to a different bathroom, and a whole different setting. Hopefully, over time, the accidents will stop.

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it will pass. my oldest was trained at 2 and abit, she did great until she was three when we even had to send her to school in pullups. almost as though she didn't care that she was wet. during that time we moved, and I had a baby. when my second was almost 3 we trained both girlss at the same time. and we've never had a problem. proudmom, your girl has gone to a new school, she has a baby sister- these things happen. don't make a big deal, send her in pullups and she'll grow out of it in a few weeks-months.
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Posted: Sun, Jan 23 2005, 5:41 pm Post subject:

Proudmom, my three year old just started doing the same thing as your daughter. It's so weird. I think it's b/c she's concentrating so much on what she is doing. I asked her all day today if she had to go and of course she said no. She pished in her tights and underwear in the bathroom. I told her that I don't have any clean underwear (not true) and that she would have to wear that until I cleaned more for her. I told her I can't figure out another way to get her to learn when to go the bathroom. I told her maybe it will her remember when to go. We shall see. How is your daughter doing?
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Posted: Sun, Jan 23 2005, 7:24 pm Post subject:

Bh my daughter is much better about it. When she is very involved in playing she will forget to use the bathroom. For example this passed shabbos it happened. She did it 3 times in a row within 5 minutes. It drove me nuts. I didnt even know what to tell her at that point. I told her the first time that only babies make in their underwear. Still didnt help. I just hope that it will pass.

Posted: Sun, Jan 23 2005, 7:27 pm Post subject:

It happens to my daughter too, when she gets very into her game. I don't think threats and punishments are appropriate. She feels bad about it as it is. She just needs more encouragement. She'll grow out of it eventually!

Posted: Sun, Jan 23 2005, 8:49 pm Post subject:

After the first time I told her that only babies make in their underwear I told her the next few times dont worry it was just an accident and she tells me yes it was and she was so happy

Diamond Member Joined: Jan 19 2005 Posts: 2560

hi!!I am a mother of four so I went through my sagas with this toliet going my oldest son once he got the hang of it never peed in his pants. same with my toddler who is two and a half. my daughter is anther story. she is four yrs and when I leave the house I put her on a diaper. forget about a pull up she makes it soaking through and through. in fact she has the chuzpeh to pee before we even leave the house I warn her dont pee now . do you need in toilet before we go out . the answer is always no no no...
what am I suppose to do.???

last year she was having problems in school bh that she is better this year no accidents in school and no accidents at home it is only when we leave to go outdoors or to the mall store etc.

Silver Member Joined: Nov 08 2004 Posts: 942

proudmom--This is probably just a stage where she is concentrating too much as you said, but I'd also check for a urinary tract infection which can show up only in incontinence.

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Silver Member Joined: Nov 08 2004 Posts: 942

not necessarily. frequency or urgency can be the only symptoms and if she has urgency she may not be able to make it to the bathroom.

Posted: Mon, Jan 24 2005, 7:04 pm Post subject:

she doesnt have any of them

Diamond Member Joined: Jan 19 2005 Posts: 2560

I only put on a diaper when I am going shopping where there is no toilets around. also I take with a extra pamper and most of the time I have to put it on in middle of the street.!!!!
I think it more tzunus to just put it on at home and it is less headache heartache. when I manage to go out with 4 kids I just want to enjoy my little outings and not have to worry that she will not make it in time. or worse having her pants dress wet