Style Stealer

Posted: Sun, May 16 2010, 10:30 pm Post subject: Style Stealer

Have you ever been in this position? (I'm sure many have.)

You just bought yourself something nice and it happened to be a really good deal too. You feel SO good about it. You show it to someone you're close with (I.e. friend or family member) and she says, "It's perfect! I'm getting it too!!!" Suddenly you feel like a piece of your individuality was snatched away from you. You think about how funny it would feel walking together in the street and both of you have a matching coat, or purse, or dress (whatever the item may be.) Would you feel comfortable to outright refuse her to get the same or would you keep your mouth shut and inwardly groan? Would you be happy for her to copy you (kind of flattering that she likes your taste so much) or would you be annoyed?

Posted: Sun, May 16 2010, 10:36 pm Post subject:

I would think that that's just how life works sometimes. :shrug: We don't own styles, nor ideas and definitely not items that are up for everyone's taking. It's just one of those weird uncomfortable situations, but there isn't anything I'd say or do, or even feel annoyed about.
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Posted: Sun, May 16 2010, 10:51 pm Post subject:

I ask if I like s/t and want to get it too. I dont mind others getting what I have-we are all individuals even if we wear the same outfit/shoes/etc
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Posted: Sun, May 16 2010, 11:41 pm Post subject: Re: Style Stealer

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Or only wear your outfits in the the dark confines of your closet.

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- But you just got one.
Yes, but our neighbor bought the same one.
- ??? (scratches head)
Well, it would be cheaper than moving.

Posted: Mon, May 17 2010, 11:47 am Post subject: re: Style Stealer

When I searched for a new blong wig, no one was selling them, and certainly not long. Now, I see it's trendy. I see the same happening with my band/fall wig. I had to buy in Eretz, now I see some ads.
I don't mind, it's flattering and will make it easier for me next time!
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What if you buy yourself something only to see your sister etc. wearing the same thing the next day? It happened to my mom more than once. But maybe it's different cuz they're twins.

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