Bais Yakov Cofetz Chaim Monsey

amother

Zinnia

Wed, May 08 2024, 7:12 pm

From what I've heard and seen, if mrs zaks likes you ur fine, if not it can be horrible.

Everyone praises their academics but I didn't find that the cc girls knew more.
The cc girls had the craziest stories about their teachers.

In monsey where it's impossible to get into ysv, bas mikrah, bye, there must be a reason why they are so small, the classes aren't full.

They used to not accept chassidesh maybe it changed.

amother

↑ Daylily ↓

Wed, May 08 2024, 7:15 pm

amother OP wrote:

Oh wow. I'm so sorry you had to go thru this with your daughter.

Mrs. Zaks wasn't at help?
I heard Mrs. Zaks daughter is gonna take over.
Is that true?

Which school are you sending your other kids?

Mrs Zaks was the problem.

I prefer not to give away to much personal information.

amother

DarkRed

Wed, May 08 2024, 10:20 pm

amother Daylily wrote:

My dd was effectived by the way her friends were verbally abused. Her friends left after 7th grade. They happen to be in remedial, dd was not. (Love how some Imamothers praise their remedial system)

8th grade is when it personally affected dd. My dh got a call saying that she was chutzpah. When asked for details, he was told that we didn't pay enough tuition for dd throughout her school years . The school had a bookkeeping error which was resolved after some work and proff on our part.

Because of this dd had a hell of a year. She was one of the top students, they threatened her about the graduation.

As a mom I felt so bad that we didn't pull her out after 6th grade. We should have seen the writing on the wall.

Bh dd is resilient. She is an amazing and successful person.

My family had a very similar story. As long as we had girls to send there would be more money
Donated and they were treated us amazing. The youngest girl hit 6th grade and boom Mrs Z treated her terribly.
She came home every day with another story of how girls were terrorized.

amother

Oleander ↓

Wed, May 08 2024, 10:31 pm

I find it so ironic that a post with the title containing the name of the Chofetz Chaim has so much lashon hara attached.

Lashon hara is info that is TRUE. I have no idea if what is posted here is true or not. But even if it is, this is not the place to share it.

If you need the info letoeles, there are halachos for that. Make calls to people that you know pulled out. Ask people in person according to the halachos of shmiras halashon.

Absolutely nothing good comes from spreading lashon hara.

Sorry if that’s not P.C. to say on this site.

We’re hopefully all Torah abiding women. Someone had to say it.

May everyone have huge Hatzlacha and nachas from their kiddos!

amother

↑ OP

Wed, May 08 2024, 10:35 pm

Yes we need to be careful.

This is serious this is not about Lushon Hora.
We as mothers need our Kids to get the best chinnuch in a safe way, to grow strong healthy Yiddisha mommas.

This post isn't about schmoozing its about serious bussiness..

And abuse Needs to be shared.

Would you want your kids to be in an abusive school of any matter?

amother

↑ Oleander

Wed, May 08 2024, 10:45 pm

amother OP wrote:

You clearly didn’t understand my post. Yes. Abuse is serious.

No, hocking about potential rumors about it on a public website is NOT ok.

I don’t live in Monsey or know much about the schools. And I too have had to do intensive research about my child’s principal in a serious way.

This is not the way.

If you want to see bracha in your children’s chinuch, do right by them by doing this properly in HKBH’s eyes.

I wish you only nachas from them!