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PostPosted: Thu, May 08 2008, 1:13 pm    Post subject: Re: re: books like fairy tales and certain movies for childr
 
Motek wrote:
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Tzaddikim also exist, but they exist in both the Jewish and non-Jewish world, and I have no problem with my children reading moral stories that aren't Jewish.


I'd be interested in seeing a Torah source that refers to non jews as tzaddikim.

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I avoid reading fairy tales to my kids, not because we have holier than thou attitude about the non jews.


Why don't you have a holider than thou attitude when you are in fact holy and they are not?

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I also don't like the way in which many stories center around personified animals. Why is that? Why should my kids read about children rather than talking bears?


There are many Medrashim and Jewish stories in which animals and inanimate objects have voices.



wow. ok, iyov was a tzaddik and was not jewish.

we may be holier than others, but that does not justify the attitude, especially since we do not run the world. if I am more talented than you, the proper attitude is to be greatful for the talents I am given, not an attitude of superiority for something I did nothing to deserve.

as for the talking animals, educate specifically to each child's learning pattern. some don't go for the animal stories, and there's nothing wrong with that.
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PostPosted: Thu, May 08 2008, 1:18 pm    Post subject: Re: re: books like fairy tales and certain movies for childr
 
Motek wrote:
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A recent proud parenting moment:

My five year old to my four year old: "If you don't give it to me Hashem is going to be mad at you"

My four year old: "Hashem can't be mad at me because He isn't a person and doesn't have feelings"


How are you planning on explaining the verses that say:

Hashem was angry. Hashem was jealous. A delightful smell for Hashem. May my words be pleasant to Him. Hashem desires His people.


When he is old enough I will point him to Part I of Moreh Nevuchim which does a better job than I can of explaining it in great detail.
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PostPosted: Thu, May 08 2008, 3:29 pm    Post subject: Re: re: books like fairy tales and certain movies for childr
 
mummiedearest wrote:
iyov was a tzaddik and was not jewish.


where does it call him a tzaddik?

what makes you say he wasn't Jewish?

one view is that the story never happened, it's a parable
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PostPosted: Thu, May 08 2008, 3:31 pm    Post subject:
 
I also read that he wasn't Jewish, but don't remember exactly where or if it was stated as an opinion only.

there are midrashim that say he was Pharoah's advisor along with Yisro and Bilaam I think.
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PostPosted: Thu, May 08 2008, 4:00 pm    Post subject:
 
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there are midrashim that say he was Pharoah's advisor along with Yisro and Bilaam I think.


right
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PostPosted: Thu, May 08 2008, 4:37 pm    Post subject: Re: re: books like fairy tales and certain movies for childr
 
about iyov
I also was under the same impression as motek that he wasn't nec. non-jewish and that there is a view its a mashal.

Either way I don't think this discussion is relevant to the topic. The topic is specifically about fairies and fairy tales like cinderela.
Those were the issues being addressed until people started making suggestions that we were saying you can't talk about anything to your kids including righteous non-Jews.
I don't see a problem with telling them about righteous non-Jews and never suggested that.
did anybody?

Never said that the only subject you can ever discuss was G-d.
I see no problem with reading a book to your kids about how trees and flowers go, and no harm there either with throwing in the subject of Hashem's hand in it Wink
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PostPosted: Thu, May 08 2008, 4:42 pm    Post subject: re: books like fairy tales and certain movies for children
 
whether or not there are other opinions on iyov's religious status, there are opinions that say:

a) he was a tzaddik, and
b) he was not jewish. she asked for a torah source, and there you have it. on with our scheduled program...
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PostPosted: Fri, May 09 2008, 12:06 pm    Post subject: Re: re: books like fairy tales and certain movies for childr
 
mummiedearest wrote:
whether or not there are other opinions on iyov's religious status, there are opinions that say:

a) he was a tzaddik, and
b) he was not jewish. she asked for a torah source, and there you have it. on with our scheduled program...


I have yet to hear a Torah source that he was a tzaddik and a non-Jew.
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PostPosted: Fri, May 09 2008, 12:13 pm    Post subject: Re: re: books like fairy tales and certain movies for childr
 
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Malachim are Hashem's creations like we are. They serve him but they weren't given bechira chofshis like we were and we don't usually see them unless they have a reason to appear to us. What's so wrong with saying that?


I don't believe that


I also want to know - what don't you believe about it?

louche wrote:
Motek wrote:


How are you planning on explaining the verses that say:

Hashem was angry. Hashem was jealous. A delightful smell for Hashem. May my words be pleasant to Him. Hashem desires His people.


presumably the same way they're explained in every BY and cheder around the globe: Dibrah Torah bil'shon basar vadam.


Is that about feelings or about Hashem's "hand"?

Is Hashem pleased when I do a mitzva or not?
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PostPosted: Fri, May 09 2008, 12:30 pm    Post subject: Re: re: books like fairy tales and certain movies for childr
 
Motek wrote:



Is that about feelings or about Hashem's "hand"?


Both.
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PostPosted: Thu, May 15 2008, 5:46 pm    Post subject: re: books like fairy tales and certain movies for children
 
When we say that Hashem is chanun v'rachum (gracious and compassionate) and we have a mitzva to emulate Him, when we invoke Hashem's 12 Middos of Rachamim, we are not merely using a figure of speech.

Is Hashem pleased when I do a mitzva?
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PostPosted: Thu, May 15 2008, 6:54 pm    Post subject: re: books like fairy tales and certain movies for children
 
There's definitely a concept of "pleasure" (Reyach Nichoach) and "wants" (Nisaaveh Lo Hakadosh Baruch Hu...) on Hashem's part. What that actually means, I haven't the faintest.
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PostPosted: Thu, May 15 2008, 7:40 pm    Post subject: re: books like fairy tales and certain movies for children
 
I don't believe that malachim have any similarity to people. If I would read your post to my children they would conjure of picture of invisible people who are in the sky with Hashem. Malachim are a force, an energy source, created by G-d to interact with the world. If G-d occasionally decides to send a force to the world in human form so be it, but that doesn't mean that any malach can appear human at any time. Using words like "bechira" and "creations like us" sends you on the wrong track.
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PostPosted: Thu, May 15 2008, 7:43 pm    Post subject: re: books like fairy tales and certain movies for children
 
But a Malach IS a creation.
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PostPosted: Thu, May 15 2008, 7:45 pm    Post subject: re: books like fairy tales and certain movies for children
 
So is grass, chairs, animals, toys, etc. Malachim are in a completely different category, so why put them in that context? It doesn't solve anything and doesn't allow proper conceptualization.
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PostPosted: Thu, May 15 2008, 7:50 pm    Post subject: re: books like fairy tales and certain movies for children
 
When we learn about G-dly light, neshamos, malachim, and spiritual worlds, we learn which things are considered creations and which things are part of G-d's essence itself. That's why we put Malachim in the category of creations.

Other than that, Malachim are usually spoken about the way they sing praises to Hashem, how they are completely batul to Hashem's will, and the missions they are given.
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PostPosted: Thu, May 15 2008, 7:56 pm    Post subject: re: books like fairy tales and certain movies for children
 
Thank you for clarifying. As we all know, I do not ascribe to a Lubavitch/Kabbalistic ideology, so we have very different views on things. Which is why I don't understand why I am asked to defend my beliefs. We have different premises, we don't accept each other's premises, so what's the point in arguing the details?
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PostPosted: Thu, May 15 2008, 8:23 pm    Post subject: re: books like fairy tales and certain movies for children
 
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Which is why I don't understand why I am asked to defend my beliefs.
as I recall it, YOU started the debate against belief in malochim. So who is it being asked to defend their beliefs?

I don't take kindly to people who start discussions/debate and then try to leave without answering the questions asked.

If a malach is not a creation then how does it exist?
If it is only a force then how do you explain the fight yaakov had with the malach and all the other references to malochim in the Torah.
And if you don't wish to have this discussion then in the future don't start it by making vague provocative comments like you did earlier in the thread and then complaining that we are putting you in a position of defense. It sounds the other way around to me when I post about a belief I have and you come along and challenge it.
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PostPosted: Thu, May 15 2008, 8:30 pm    Post subject: re: books like fairy tales and certain movies for children
 
I really have no idea what you are talking about. This discussion was never about malachim, it was about me teaching things about religion to my kids that I don't believe in, and whether or not this is better, worse, or the same as fairytales. My actual belief about malachim has absolutely no bearing on this discussion.
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PostPosted: Thu, May 15 2008, 8:35 pm    Post subject: re: books like fairy tales and certain movies for children
 
I used malochim as just one example of things we could be talking about rather then fairies and why we don't need them, and you commented indicating that there are those who don't believe in them.

You also went on to say in a further post that you don't tell your kids things that are not true, indicating that what I said is not true. (re: malochim)

Of course if you had wanted to stick to the topic and not gone on about the authenticity or not of malochim you could have just as easily chosen to focus on my point rather then my examples which you were clearly taking issue with.

enough said.
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