Improving social skills

Posted: Mon, Jul 23 2012, 12:30 pm Post subject: Improving social skills

By nature I am more of an introvert - I am fine with making conversation and building relationships, but have a harder time in large crowds and "working the room." My supervisor at work told me that it would be beneficial to work on improving my skills, but no specific suggestions. Any ideas for books, courses, online help? I'm not sure where to start.

Thanks!

Executive Member Joined: Oct 06 2011 Posts: 481

how about you read some books from author Dale Carnegie..he's has a few and those should help.

Posted: Mon, Jul 23 2012, 12:41 pm Post subject: re: Improving social skills

That's so interesting that you should suggest that, I am actually reading one of his books now. Thanks!

Posted: Mon, Jul 23 2012, 12:41 pm Post subject: re: Improving social skills

Funny. I could have written that same post. Being an introvert hasn't hindered my career path, but I'm sure it hasn't helped. And I work for a company where the head is a huge extroverted frat boy type. Very hard for me to relate too. I even called in sick last week so I wouldn't have to go to a company party! (Of course, I wouldn't have been able to eat anything--that was the excuse I made up for myself.)

My husband is a much better schmoozer than I am, and he's suggested going to Toastmasters (http://www.toastmasters.org/) to help me gain the confidence I lack, but so far, I haven't done it. But I hear it works.

Posted: Mon, Jul 23 2012, 1:00 pm Post subject: re: Improving social skills

Amother, I'm looking at the toastmasters website now. I think I'll try it. Maybe we can encourage each other.

Posted: Mon, Jul 23 2012, 1:08 pm Post subject: re: Improving social skills

Good luck! Please let us know how it goes.

Posted: Mon, Jul 30 2012, 2:28 pm Post subject: re: Improving social skills

OP here - just got back from my first meeting. I really enjoyed and think I will become a member. It's officially more for public speaking than my specific issues, but I think it will build comfort and confidence and help in all social situations.

Any other ideas gladly accepted as well Smile

thanks all!

Senior Member Joined: Mar 18 2008 Posts: 110

Wow! I'm impressed. Good for you!

Posted: Tue, Jul 31 2012, 2:34 pm Post subject: re: Improving social skills

Thanks so much for the encouragement!