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PostPosted: Sun, Jan 15 2012, 10:01 pm    Post subject: re: 3 year old "bully" in playgroup
 
that's terrible that this girl spends most of the day in time out. how frustraing for her. I had no idea that my ds, when he was 3, was spending most of his day in time out until the teacher told me close to pesach time. I was so angry and I pulled my child out and put him somewhere else where he thrived. If I ever meet that teacher again, I don't think I could exchange pleasantries, or even look at her for that matter. disgusting.
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PostPosted: Mon, Jan 16 2012, 12:54 am    Post subject: Re: re: 3 year old "bully" in playgroup
 
octopus wrote:
that's terrible that this girl spends most of the day in time out. how frustraing for her. I had no idea that my ds, when he was 3, was spending most of his day in time out until the teacher told me close to pesach time. I was so angry and I pulled my child out and put him somewhere else where he thrived. If I ever meet that teacher again, I don't think I could exchange pleasantries, or even look at her for that matter. disgusting.


I had a similar situation with one of my children at age 4. believe it or not, the teacher bumped into me years later in the supermarket and apologized. said she was young, inexperienced, really believed in her methods. but knows better now and had real charota and begged mechila. I was very touched. it was very healing for me, but unfortunately the damage was already done to my child. what can you do.

anyway, the OP's situation sounds awful for everyone. clearly this difficult child is not getting what she needs from the teacher. so I maintain my position, if the school/teacher/mother isnt going to change something (teacher techniques, add a shadow, move the child to another school more qualified to meet her needs) then if I were the OP, I'd move my child to another place where he is safe. the challenging child deserves better treatment and so does the OP's. no matter who you blame.
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